Spanish Reflexive Verbs

Spanish Reflexive Verbs

This lesson is all about Spanish reflexive verbs. This is one of the more complicated lessons (but no more complicated than some previous lessons!). A reflexive verb is a verb where the action of a subject falls upon the subject itself. Many reflexive verbs are related to routines of the daily life (peinarse "to comb ones hair," acostarse "to lie down," levantase "to get up," etc). You will see that many of these verbs end with the word se, which indicates that the verbal action falls on the subject itself.

In other words; in Spanish, when you talk about an action being performed on yourself, you show the reflexive nature of the action with a reflexive verb.

Spanish Reflexive Verbs: Actions You Perform on Yourself

Reflexive verbs indicate that the subject of the sentence has performed an action on itself. In other words, in a reflexive sentence the subject is the same as the object. Examples of reflexive actions are the following:

• José got up
• He put his shoes on
• Eva got sick
• I asked myself a question
• The girl brushed her teeth

You may look at the last example and say, "But the object is teeth! Why should that verb be reflexive?"

In Spanish, parts of the body are never preceded by personal pronouns. In other words, you never talk about "my teeth"--you talk about "the teeth," with a reflexive verb preceding it.

For example, in English you would say:

• I comb my hair
• I wash my face
• I scratch my arm

In Spanish, you would say:

• Me peino el pelo
• Me lavo la cara
• Me rasco el brazo

All reflexive verbs are preceded by reflexive pronouns.

Subject: YO - Reflexive Pronoun: ME

Understanding Spanish reflexive verbs: When is a verb reflexive?

If you are reading Spanish, you will know that a verb is reflexive by the ending –se tacked onto its infinitive form.

A verb is not reflexive if it does not have the -se ending. For example, compare:

• Me despierto. with Te despierto.

The first example is reflexive, but the second one is not! In the first example, the subject is performing the action on his/herself (e.g., I wake myself up), and the verb is despertarse. In the second example, the subject is performing the action on someone else (e.g., I wake you up), and the verb is despertar.

Now compare:

• Te enojaron. with Nos enojamos.

Can you guess which example uses a reflexive verb and which does not?

• The first example is not reflexive (They made you angry) and uses the verb enojar.
• The second example is reflexive (We got angry) and uses the verb enojarse.

Some verbs are ALWAYS reflexive, like enfermarse.

Por ejemplo:

Using Spanish reflexive verbs to show emotion

When a person becomes emotional, the verb used will often be reflexive. For example, if you get angry, become sad, or feel happy for someone, you will need to express yourself using a reflexive verb.

This can seem a bit confusing at first. You've learned how to use estar with descriptive adjectives to express emotions.

• Estoy enojado. "(I) am angry."
• Estoy feliz. "(I) am happy."
• Estoy triste. "(I) am sad."

When you say how you feel in this way, you're expressing your emotional state at that moment.

However, when you want to describe how your emotional state has changed over time or as a result of something, estar simply won't do. You'll need a reflexive verb.

• Me enojé rápidamente. "I quickly got angry."
• Me puso triste. "(It) made me sad."
• Me alegro oír tu voz. "(It) makes me happy to hear your voice."

Don't worry too much about this nuance of reflexive verbs! The more you hear verbs in action, the more you'll naturally pick up which verbs are used reflexively and which are not.

Check out more Spanish Verbs for useful info! Here are some recommended lessons:

• Spanish stem changing verbs
• Spanish Verbs in the Present Tense and Conjugations
• Spanish Verbs Decir & Dar

See you soon! ¡Hasta pronto!

Mauricio Evlampieff: Rocket Spanish